Friday, December 19, 2008

Christmas Stress

Why is it that this time of the year seems to bring out the greatest amount of stress in our lives? You'd think it would be just the opposite - getting together with friends and family should be relaxing... but I suppose when the whole world is keeping up with the Jones' it makes for a time of stress rather than fun.

I'm not keeping up with anyone, but I'm still feeling an incredible amount of stress this year. Our economy, our job situations, the threat of social/economic collapse all combine to make one stressed out. Feeling stressed, I went to where I normally go when I'm having a hard time. The Word of God. And, after a short prayer, wouldn't you know that the Lord has the answer to this issue to? As I opened the bible, I came across this passage in Matthew 6: 19-34 (NKJV):

“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

“The lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is good, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in you is darkness, how great is that darkness!

“No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.
“Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?

“So why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. Now if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?

“Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble."

It always seems that when we're running around with our heads cut off, trying to do all that society and ourselves have put on our plates, that the Lord comes through with a quiet reminder of where our hearts, eyes, and minds are supposed to be.

May it be so for you in this time of stress.

Merry Christmas.

Mike

P.S. I went back and read that same passage in the Message... I've never really liked the Message much, but when I read that passage in the Message, I was blown away... it talks to me... maybe it will to you?

“Don’t hoard treasure down here where it gets eaten by moths and corroded by rust or—worse!—stolen by burglars. Stockpile treasure in heaven, where it’s safe from moth and rust and burglars. It’s obvious, isn’t it? The place where your treasure is, is the place you will most want to be, and end up being.

“Your eyes are windows into your body. If you open your eyes wide in wonder and belief, your body fills up with light. If you live squinty-eyed in greed and distrust, your body is a dank cellar. If you pull the blinds on your windows, what a dark life you will have!

“You can’t worship two gods at once. Loving one god, you’ll end up hating the other. Adoration of one feeds contempt for the other. You can’t worship God and Money both.

“If you decide for God, living a life of God-worship, it follows that you don’t fuss about what’s on the table at mealtimes or whether the clothes in your closet are in fashion. There is far more to your life than the food you put in your stomach, more to your outer appearance than the clothes you hang on your body. Look at the birds, free and unfettered, not tied down to a job description, careless in the care of God. And you count far more to him than birds.

“Has anyone by fussing in front of the mirror ever gotten taller by so much as an inch? All this time and money wasted on fashion—do you think it makes that much difference? Instead of looking at the fashions, walk out into the fields and look at the wildflowers. They never primp or shop, but have you ever seen color and design quite like it? The ten best-dressed men and women in the country look shabby alongside them.

“If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don’t you think he’ll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving. People who don’t know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.

“Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.
In the intended Spirit of the Season,

Mike

1 comment:

  1. Anonymous12:36 PM

    While I have not always been a big fan of the message translation - the last paragraph of your post is truly wonderful.

    The challenge I believe we all face as humans is actually giving the cares of "today" to Jesus and just letting him take care of the rest. I am proud of you for looking at the stress of this time that way. It's my prayer you can achieve that ever so difficult task - letting go. With the risk of sounding corny, or all "Christian-eese" - letting go and letting God.

    I am also going to be working on just this way of dealing with stress - thanks for the post.

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